Tuesday, July 28, 2009

Now I aint Sayin' She a Gold Digger....


Okay, so I Love Men: Intelligent, somewhat cocky (confident), God-fearing, successful, sexy MEN! And because I am a Woman...I'm not interested in a man (or little boy for that matter) without A PLAN! See, a Gold diggin' woman makes a man wish he had a prenup after she goes after all he has....a gold diggin' woman sizes a man's pants....for His wallet! A gold diggin' woman sways in with her expectations high and her standards low: she's in it for herself & she can care less whether her man feels like a "MAN", she simply wants to feel like a woman & the only way she can do so is by being manipulative, conniving and two-faced, as if she's somehow trying to get vengeance on every serpent in her life full of lies and trickery?! This woman will play games with a man's heart AND his money with no remorse and quite frankly....this "woman" is merely a little girl screaming in defense; "something is wrong"?!!



When a woman has reached a certain point in life, when her Independence compels her to depend on a man for his love and support...when this very dependence does not threaten, but enlightens her...She doesn't seek for or respond to any man simply because he is a "Man" & she's not so gullible or flattered to invest her time in someone just because he feels she is worth his....This woman is not easily impressed nor is she walking around with a chip on her shoulders!

However, she is a GOAL digger! She wants to know what a man has to offer beyond a rhythm and stroke, beyond promises of curled toes and falsetto notes....& she definitely isn't stuck on his credit score, car and house size, or job status...However some of these things should matter for both man & woman!


More than anything, she is interested in his Goals and the drive in which he operates to achieve his goals. Is he one who talks the talk & walk the walk; can he make a plan & follow through?!



A gold digger will have a structured criteria of "what a man should be; what he should have, etc", but a Goal digger realizes that a man with a plan is not exclusively the CEO of a major company or a billionaire. A man with a plan can be a humble street sweeper with stability and a means of living up to HIS OWN potential (not a picky woman's "standards")! A Goal digger is a woman so concerned with a man's plan because for so long she has been deriving her own....she simply wants what she deserves....


5 comments:

Sarah Camille said...

Love this (:

Kelly Nina Kiyyah said...

"A gold digger will have a structured criteria of "what a man should be; what he should have, etc", but a Goal digger realizes that a man with a plan is not exclusively the CEO of a major company or a billionaire. A man with a plan can be a humble street sweeper with stability and a means of living up to HIS OWN potential (not a picky woman's "standards")"

this piece right here is the truuuuuuuthhhh!!!! Dope post hun! I agree with everything!!! Sorta like you were in my head! :)

-Kelly of *AF*

d. said...

great post, my dear... i believe i'm a "goal digger".

"A Goal digger is a woman so concerned with a man's plan because for so long she has been deriving her own....she simply wants what she deserves...."

...couldn't have said it better myself.

$$*lalaleezy*$$&&dUh! said...

readn my mind lol

it'sok2bu*nique* said...

i aint a golddigger lol...this was really good!!!