At the age of 19, i started writing a book "So you want a Good Man"! I think i woke up one day & realized how bogus our demands are; i realized we weren't half of the things we were asking/looking for!!! And i realized, it starts with us! Because I have always been "preoccupied" with representing God's royal greatness, I have never been one to demand or even expect something besides myself; however, i couldn't totally disassociate myself from womankind either! Not all women are like this, still TOO many are....& eventually, there will be a book for that woman and everyone else who needs to know:YOU ARE THE STANDARD.
so rather than living up to falsified standards set by a negatively skewed society, i say we live up to our own POTENTIAL!
...and we are all potentially Great :)