Wednesday, October 21, 2009

"SO...WHATCHU TRYNA SAY"???

...I love you, BUT.....I'm not in love with you????

What in the world does that mean & who came up with such a generic excuse?!

7 comments:

supa.starrr said...

lol that is super cliche and annoying. you're loved as a friend or REALLY LIKED but the other person doesn't want to make a relationship out of it. there are other ways to say this aside from that lame excuse lol

blogoratti said...

lol@who came up wit that...

♥Chymere♥ said...

Girl...i don't even know. my boo's ex said that shit (i was just a friend back then)... and I was like huh??? How does that work? I still don't understand

And when are we gonna do our collab??? email me: thesweetheartchronicles.blogspot.com

RoByn LaTice said...

Hmm. I have to disagree here. i think you can love someone but not be IN love with them. to me it simply means that you care for that person in more of a brother/sister way. I mean you care about there well-being, you care about not hurting them..but you dont get that whole "when i look into your eyes i melt" type feeling. Or the "completion". Yea, i didnt really think u could love someone w/o being in love with them either..til I got in tht situation.

Shandra E...*the misses said...

Hey Robyn! I agree with you! I've love a guy & i know I will NEVER be "in love" with him! Still, i'd never (purposely) create or allow a romantic relationship with him either!! So, i think when people find it EASY to sleep with someone that they LOVE yet turn around & say they're not "in love"....i have a hard time believing LOVE exist at all, because that's just selfish & manipulative...

Beelah said...

I've said that and always meant it. When I've been in love, I've always loved the person, but loving someone doesn't mean I'm in love. I've fallen in and outta love with someone and throughout I still loved them, sincerely :)

Shandra E...*the misses said...

so true Bellah!! people fall in & out of love, over & over again with te same person & still LOVE never "dies"...really LOVE is LOVE; period. certain types of relationships change the colors of love & certain experiences change the saturation of those colors!
Love, when it is True Never dies...it either weakens or intensifies...