Hey so i have a question: If a guy & a girl are talking via telephone for quite a while, and suddenly the guy says "when are we gonna go out" (SIDE BAR:what does that mean...intentions, etc???) However, the girl says "oh, well just to let you know, "i'm not looking for a relationship or anything like that", then he says "that's not a problem, i still wanna take you out"....IF SHE AGREES TO GO OUT, WHAT MESSAGE IS SHE SENDING?? Should she trust that they really are on the same page (as in: neither want a relationship) OR is she leading him on by agreeing to go on the date?AND what If he says, "it's koo, i just wanna take you out", BUT She KNOWS he's really into her. Again, is she leading him on by going on the date even though she knows he wants more than she does?! Or has she been "up front"/ honest; therefore she has no fault (since she "kept it real from the jump)"????
Hopefully all that wasn't confusing; we went in circles about this at church....I NEED TO KNOW WHAT EVERYONE THINKS??!
ALSO: What classifies a "DATE" and when are people considered to be dating vs. simply getting to know each other or is it all just the same thing??? help me out yall....they had me sooo frustrated; I have my own thoughts, BUT i just wanna hear different opinions! ;-o