Here's some advice I shared with an associate of mine through email...perhaps someone else needs to hear/know the same...
just know that whatever is setting you back, can be the springboard you need to propell forward!! I've had so many hardships babe, so i can't say i know where you're coming from (cuz i literally don't)...can't even say i've been there, but i've been around long enough to know that sometimes where you haven't been makes the grundgy look of where you are seem just a little bit brighter!!! you made it to twenty-10...so Death, is somewhere you haven't been...no setback; just a set-up for GREATNESS ;)
BE and THINK postive.